Have you ever asked your kids for a performance appraisal? Wonder what rating you would get? Would my son feel that my parenting skills and behavior offered him the support he needed as a young man to accept life’s challenges and be fulfilled with school, work and recreation? Having the opportunity to examine our lives together in the LaL Personal Mastery seminar was extraordinary! I am becoming aligned with and supportive of my teenager’s dreams, aspirations and priorities — and even more incredible is that he is open to receiving my support. The seminar was a great starting point that opened safe and non‐threatening communications for both my son and me.